Who's gonna make the gravy now? We ask master storyteller Paul Kelly
The story began with a funeral notice published on page 33 of The Age newspaper on August 11, 2025:
"With great sorrow, we announce the death of Joe by sudden misadventure. Much-loved father, husband, brother, brother-in-law and uncle to Dan, Rita, Stella, Roger, Mary, Angus, Frank and Dolly. You loved life and went hard at it. You loved music, food, football, celebration, tall tales and strong argument. We can still see you cooking up a storm in the kitchen at our big family gatherings, pots and pans on the go, BBQ smoking outside, glass of wine in hand, your beloved reggae music on the stereo, Junior Murvin, Linton Kwesi Johnson, Gregory Isaac and the like. You filling up everybody's drinks and teasing the little ones. Christmas just won't be the same this year without you. But we know you'll always be with us, hovering above us, floating all around us, making sure we get it right. The funeral and service will be on August 14th. Followed by a wake to end all wakes! Further details to follow."
Joe was first introduced to the public in 1996 when he wrote a letter to his brother Dan from prison, worried about losing his wife Rita and kids and concerned that no one would know how to make gravy for Christmas. This letter inspired Paul Kelly's classic song, How To Make Gravy.
On August 15, 2025, Paul Kelly released Rita Wrote A Letter, the long-awaited sequel exploring the story from Rita's perspective. Kelly mentioned he initially tried to write the song from Rita’s point of view, but Joe's voice dominated the narrative.
Key Themes and Tribute
- Joe's love for life, music, food, football, and family celebration.
- The vivid scenes of family gatherings with reggae music and cooking.
- The enduring presence of Joe in family memories despite his absence.
- The emotional connection and continuation of the story through Paul Kelly’s music.
Author’s Summary
Paul Kelly’s songs tell a poignant story of family, loss, and celebration, capturing Joe’s spirit and the love that surrounds him through heartfelt letters and music.
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