‘At 55, I’m the only single one in the family’: Was I wrong to skip my family’s Thanksgiving dinner?

Family Tensions at Thanksgiving

Each year, heated political remarks and unresolved family friction leave the narrator drained. “The same snarky political comments leave me with a bad taste in my mouth. That, and the undercooked turkey,” they admit, describing the uneasy mix of emotions that Thanksgiving often brings.

Choosing Solitude Over Tradition

At 55, the writer reflects on being the only single family member, often feeling like the odd one out during gatherings. After years of enduring uncomfortable traditions, skipping the dinner felt like an act of self-care rather than rebellion. Choosing calm over chaos brought guilt—but also relief.

A Question of Boundaries

The inner conflict highlights a broader question: Is it selfish to prioritize mental well-being over family expectations? As holiday obligations clash with emotional limits, the story captures the universal struggle between belonging and self-preservation.

“Sometimes peace comes not from others’ acceptance, but from our own permission to rest.”


Author’s summary: A 55-year-old reflects on choosing solitude over family drama at Thanksgiving, exploring guilt, boundaries, and emotional self-care.

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MarketWatch MarketWatch — 2025-11-27

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