Dear Quentin,
Last Thanksgiving was filled with backhanded compliments and pointed remarks. Despite my best efforts to keep the peace, the tension was overwhelming.
This year, I’m seriously considering skipping Thanksgiving dinner altogether because I’m burned out by the drama. I’m torn between wanting to avoid the stress and not wanting to disappoint my family.
Taking a step back from stressful situations, like difficult family dinners, can be necessary to protect your emotional health. Setting clear boundaries does not mean abandoning loved ones but rather preserving your peace.
Choosing to skip a holiday event because of past negative experiences is understandable; prioritizing mental well-being sometimes means stepping away from toxic family dynamics.